When you are trying to orchestrate a touching family moment via satellite feed with the presidential candidate’s family, TAKE THE MICROPHONE AWAY FROM THE KIDS! While they are nice little girls, they are excited and don’t know the full methods of political manipulation. It is also a cheap use of children and can backfire on you. I found it phony and cheesy. Also, Barack, with all due respect, stick to the script. You are not a good actor. Michelle, on the other hand, is quite good. She even mustered the sniffles and tears. I deal with the public enough, and with folks trying to turn on the emotion to garner my sympathy enough, to know when it isn’t totally sincere.
I don’t doubt that they believe what they say and that they truly love their family; however, I don’t see or hear much substance. I’m especially tired of hearing about their backgrounds.
You know what Mrs. Obama? I grew up dirt poor, raised in a verbally abusive, matriarchal family structure. Just like you (not), I too am a public servant, only I don’t make millions of dollars. I didn’t get a free ride. I can’t afford to pay attention much less afford anything else. I also don’t have the money you do to help take care of a deserving mother.
Like yours, my family is blue collar: merchant marine, cook, truck drivers, warehouse workers, and clerical types. Guess how many women have graduated from college on my mom’s side of the family? One. Me. I’m the baby girl, too.
Half of my grandparents came from other countries. One left home at the age of 15 and did the best he could for his family. We have our successes: My uncle, told he would be nothing (by a teacher), went on to get drafted into the Marines, used that to get his GED, went to Bob Jones University (yep, he did), went on to become a missionary in the country of my grandfather’s origin, worked with people directly involved in the tensions in that country , built churches, got his masters, and then went on to another country even after 30 years away from his family in the U.S. That is selfless service.
That’s also America Mrs. Obama. Not one race owns “the story”. Not one gender owns “the struggle”. Not one generation owns a hard luck story. We owe what we are to God and to the people who believed in us. Sadly, the problems in many of our schools is that there are kids coming from homes where education is not esteemed.
My story Mrs. Obama? My mom dropped out of school between 9th and 10th grade to help run my grandfather’s restaurant. My dad was born with an intellectual disability and would never quite mature past the age of 18 (especially as social awareness is concerned). He would never do more than work in warehouses and do manual labor. He is a good, hard worker that follows the rules and the expectations. He’ll give you everything he’s got. After my grandfather closed the restaurant, my mom went to work in a factory making bomb casings for the military. Then President Carter came along, the economy went bust, and my mom lost her job. Do you know what it is like for an adult, female/single mother to find a job good enough to support a child, while at the same time, not having an education? I had to get a job as soon as I was able, just to buy my own clothes and such. While your parents sacrificed to have mom stay home, my mom didn’t have a choice and I raised myself.
Unlike you, Mrs. Obama, I was raised that we don’t have dreams. We work. We become secretaries or such (perfectly good careers if that is what you aspire to do). College was for the kids from the town next to ours. So, by the age of 16 I figured it wasn’t worth trying, so I didn’t. When I was 18, I quit high school and ran away to Los Angeles.
The one thing I had going for me that entire time? I had been raised in a legalistic church and had the fear of God firmly implanted, and eventually, while sitting in a bar, decided I’d had enough and that God should have control of my life. (Not a social program, not another human, but GOD.)
I didn’t hear you mention your relationship with God. Oh, that’s right, you follow men and their ideas. The good reverend is an example that.
So, God took me back, He took the GED I got a year after I quit high school and gave me a college education. I was blessed enough to experience successful academic studies with the highest honors one can get (and a job in a school district where people would jump at the chance to teach.)
Those positive things your mother and father instilled in you are great. But, don’t think that you and Barack own that story. In fact, you were more privileged than a lot of people.
Why is it such a story that someone grows up poor and goes to college?
Why is it such a story that someone goes from a an ordinary background to a privileged one a huge deal? I think you’ll find with a lot of people, especially of our generation, a lot of similar stories.
I’m so tired of the dog and pony shows from both sides. I’m tired of the “here is my story” and isn’t it grand “attitude”.
I know successful people with worse stories than mine. Somewhere deep inside is the survival instinct. Some of us listen to it, others just let life run over them.
Stop the Obama worship already. Really, people. Grow the heck up and look at people for what they are: humans full of flaws and likely to let you down. Choose who you think will lead our country the best; not because of his “story,” but because of the substance that person has a leader and in vision. Really listen.
By the way, the bigger story should be based on a couple of questions: Why do we persistently reinforce into our children that they come from nothing, will have nothing, and can do nothing? Why do we instill into our children that unless by some stroke of luck and a plethora of government programs, they won’t succeed? All of your sad stories and “look how awful this is” should focus in on the big picture. There are kids not achieving because they are not being raised to believe that they matter, that their existence is vital to the progress of our country, that they should dream, exercise their creativity, and that they should see that they are valued and need to work hard to achieve their dreams. They are raised to give up and to settle. Our country used to be full of dreamers and doers. Hmmm….before all of the government programs.
Sorry, folks. I’m just fired up and really believe that the conventions need to be cut down to two days and should be about platform and policy, not ego stroking.